26 July 2010

Facebook

A week ago, I actually deactivated my Facebook!
I don't really have a very good reason for it but i was determined that time

For the past 2 years, Facebook was a part of my life....
Every time I started my internet browser, one of the tabs must be Facebook...
Every time when i have nothing to do, I will go through all the status, links as well as photos posted by my friends
Every time I have some thoughts or quote, even a tiny little thing happening, it will be on my Facebook status

I really like it a lot to be able to know what's happening with everyone i care about through Facebook!
We shared thoughts, we talk things through, or even just plain spamming will be happy enough sometimes...
Facebook, it really is a very powerful networking tool for me, and really my friends and I or even relatives can always share our lives through Facebook whenever possible!

Now, I realized I have somehow misused this very powerful tool and neglected what it was meant to be to have Facebook =/
It somehow became a habit to me, click and refreshing my news feed when I don't feel like doing anything else...

I admit i am never a person who can control myself very well, so the 'dark side' of Facebook kinda attract me so much, at one point, I completely misused Facebook and totally plain wasting my time on it some of the time which, well, really very pathetic for me....

I do not deactivate my Facebook to show anything, I just want to prove to myself that I could survive very well without plain clicking it for the sake of Facebooking...
I really love the ideas of Facebook, a social networking site which probably connecting almost every single beings on this planet.....
BUT, I really was terrified how dependent was I on these kind of stuff, which mess up my life little by little without myself having conscious about it....

I will always reactivate my lovely account when i feels like it
For the meantime, maybe I will observe myself a little longer just to make sure the virus did not come back to me once more.....

Don't get me wrong, but its true that there will always be a lot of disadvantages doesn't matter how many advantages a certain thing have....
We just have to always remember to only utilize it but not misusing it =)
Very true, no? Somehow, i can type but no longer talk and social =.=

6 comments:

  1. I'm so agree with ur post. After all, i have da same thought as u, i was once losing control and misusing FB, and I decided to deactivated it since 2 months ago, i'm so concentrating to do my thgs since then!
    Many ppl are surprised why on earth i actually deactivated my fb acc, i told them i jz dun feel like using it anymore, and they were shocked! I'm curious wat is wrong vf deactivating a fb acc, it is indeed attaching to our life, already!

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  2. Irene - Why must you use effing =.=

    Michelle - Hehe, exactly, I agree with you! It became one part of our life, too much if you ask me! Hehe, but I'll activate it again once i feel its okay.... Just need to learn and control =)

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  3. :) FB is one of the way for people to get reach to me. My handphone number and MSN only given to close friends. Hope to see you again in FB. Kaka.

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